It cam across my Mind again today

Today…..the thoughts ran through my mind again

I understand why he questions about him and her

I understand why he has insecurities

I understand why it does hurt

I understand why it’s hard for him

I understand why he thinks as much as he does

I understand why he asks such questions

Because for you to give your heart to someone it takes some precautions

Because for you to let someone in it takes some time

Because he truly wants to trust that she knows what she wants as well

Because he wants to truly be filled with her presence that it completes him

This sense of completly trusting someone with your own fragility is scary

Yet how will we learn without letting ourselves be vulnerable, right?

Confuse that’s what its label

But it’s only because we want to so much figure things out

And sometimes when the other half is unwilling to give in….we can’t move anywhere…

And even when we do, we come back to the same place.