Vice Versa

Like seriously?!

Why do people do that?! Do what?

EX: One time my friend was like "Just make him hate you, be mean to him, or say something that will hurt him. That way it'll be easier for him not to always miss you so much and mainly because it'll be easier for you both to stop hurting." I was like "What the heck? Why would I do something that dumb!" My friend was like "because you already know that you both love each other too much to hold hatred against eachother. He'll get mad at you, but he will only be mad for so long, because you already know he loves you and will get over that."

I wonder why do people come up with such pathetic methods. Don't they know it only makes the situation worse.

It's just like saying go find yourself a bf/gf so they will move on even if you know it yourself that you still can't get over them.

You do one thing to make that person think something else than what is really there or how you really feel. (because it makes you feel like you're doing the right thing, that you're protecting them) But really in reality you aren't!

Be honesty with yourself, and be honesty with others. If you know it hurts you and it hurts them let it fade by itself. It takes some people longer than others with some things. Don't lie and think you're doing the right thing (oh it's because I care so much for them, I only want whats best for them) Stupid! stupid! Stupid

Find a different method. I know this is not the only one. Go and expand your brain, use some critical thinking skills!

*NOTE: this does not only happen in relationships, it happens in other situations too.